I heard that R, the one had drug overdose, had called I. I'm not sure what they've talked, and don't want to know. I was surprised I did pick up her call, because I thought if K knew it's R's call, she would just ignore it.
The fact is when I having her hair cut, R, don't know how she knew, called the hair stylist (we all have the same hair stylist).
I mean, after that night, we all really need some time to... don't know how to say, maybe a break. The things between R and her ex, although they've been together for almost a year, things just coming up, it's just like a boring soup drama. And the things not only affected them, but all the people around them...
Hope she would do well in her home city.
Wednesday, 7 November 2007
Monday, 29 October 2007
How far will you go for your friend?
Something came up on Sunday night. My friend R overdosed on sleeping pills, she took about 70 tablets (she said, but nobody knew whether it's true).
Another friend I got a call from her first, she went to her home (since she lives alone). After she got there, she called an other friend of mine, N, and she called me. We all went to her home to checked on her, when she's drinking Chivas (didn't even bother to use a glass). For sure R looked terrible, and she told all of us that she's going back to her home city (where her parents are) on Monday morning.
The whole thing was because R just got out from a bad relationship, or was she really out... she and her boyfriend, they just kept breaking out and getting back... But it seemed that her ex was dating someone else.
Anyway, N went back home to get some sleep, and I and I were staying with her. We didn't dare to leave her alone, since we don't know what she's gonna do to herself. At that night, R once rushed out of her appartment, with no shoes on, also not much clothes on, we just dragged her back in; or she kept calling her ex via both mobile and home; when talking with her ex or her ex's mother on phone, she kept drinking Chivas. It's how we spent the night.
At around 4am (yes, morning), N came back with her brother, because her brother could drive us to the airport. We got there around 5:30am, met I's boyfriend, since there’re no one at the ticketing counter until 6:30, so we decide we all should eat something. After settling down with our breakfast, R suddenly said that she's not taking off until she met her ex...
What a nice surprise!!! We told her she should at least fly back to her home town to see her parents first, since that very night she cried and told her parents everything on the phone, including the overdose, she should at least let her parents see her. But she just said it's no use if we forced her to go back, she could check-in and everything, but there's no one could force her to get on the plane; even she did, she could find a way to come back.
What if her ex didn't want to see her (and it's very likely after the whole night non-stop calling)? She said she would just go and knock on his door, and he definitely would see her... she had to take revenge at what he did to her no matter what... blah blah blah
Five people, sitting at the airport to stay with her, at 6am, and now she told us she's not going?? She said she would come back after seeing (or taking revenge) her ex. Do you believe that?
We asker her to call her parents, she wouldn't. Then, we asked her to tell us her parents' number, we wouldn't tell. At last, she called her father and told him she's not coming back that day.
When leaving the airport, we called R's relatives in HK (without telling her) see if they could take care of her for a while, since we all needed to take rest and go to work. N’s brother took us to where R's relatives lived without her knowing it. After we stopped the car and her relative appeared, R went all crazy and just run across the road. We're able to stop her 'cuz she fell off. We left her to her relatives, when she kept yelling she wanted to see her ex or something, and blaming us making things complicated.
I heard that R's father flew to HK that day, and she went back to her home city that night. She did meet her ex, but with her father and his mother and her relative and her friend present (they stood at the door).
To tell the truth, I was really pissed that night. There're many ways to be miserable and depressed, but what she did... I have not doubt she's very sad, but I also felt that she's a little attention-seeking.
I had depression few years ago, along with anorexia and bulimia. I know how sad a person could be, just watching what she did to everyone who around her and care about her, I realize it's so helpless when you could only watch but not be able to help.
Another friend I got a call from her first, she went to her home (since she lives alone). After she got there, she called an other friend of mine, N, and she called me. We all went to her home to checked on her, when she's drinking Chivas (didn't even bother to use a glass). For sure R looked terrible, and she told all of us that she's going back to her home city (where her parents are) on Monday morning.
The whole thing was because R just got out from a bad relationship, or was she really out... she and her boyfriend, they just kept breaking out and getting back... But it seemed that her ex was dating someone else.
Anyway, N went back home to get some sleep, and I and I were staying with her. We didn't dare to leave her alone, since we don't know what she's gonna do to herself. At that night, R once rushed out of her appartment, with no shoes on, also not much clothes on, we just dragged her back in; or she kept calling her ex via both mobile and home; when talking with her ex or her ex's mother on phone, she kept drinking Chivas. It's how we spent the night.
At around 4am (yes, morning), N came back with her brother, because her brother could drive us to the airport. We got there around 5:30am, met I's boyfriend, since there’re no one at the ticketing counter until 6:30, so we decide we all should eat something. After settling down with our breakfast, R suddenly said that she's not taking off until she met her ex...
What a nice surprise!!! We told her she should at least fly back to her home town to see her parents first, since that very night she cried and told her parents everything on the phone, including the overdose, she should at least let her parents see her. But she just said it's no use if we forced her to go back, she could check-in and everything, but there's no one could force her to get on the plane; even she did, she could find a way to come back.
What if her ex didn't want to see her (and it's very likely after the whole night non-stop calling)? She said she would just go and knock on his door, and he definitely would see her... she had to take revenge at what he did to her no matter what... blah blah blah
Five people, sitting at the airport to stay with her, at 6am, and now she told us she's not going?? She said she would come back after seeing (or taking revenge) her ex. Do you believe that?
We asker her to call her parents, she wouldn't. Then, we asked her to tell us her parents' number, we wouldn't tell. At last, she called her father and told him she's not coming back that day.
When leaving the airport, we called R's relatives in HK (without telling her) see if they could take care of her for a while, since we all needed to take rest and go to work. N’s brother took us to where R's relatives lived without her knowing it. After we stopped the car and her relative appeared, R went all crazy and just run across the road. We're able to stop her 'cuz she fell off. We left her to her relatives, when she kept yelling she wanted to see her ex or something, and blaming us making things complicated.
I heard that R's father flew to HK that day, and she went back to her home city that night. She did meet her ex, but with her father and his mother and her relative and her friend present (they stood at the door).
To tell the truth, I was really pissed that night. There're many ways to be miserable and depressed, but what she did... I have not doubt she's very sad, but I also felt that she's a little attention-seeking.
I had depression few years ago, along with anorexia and bulimia. I know how sad a person could be, just watching what she did to everyone who around her and care about her, I realize it's so helpless when you could only watch but not be able to help.
Eason Chan Concert: Moving on Stage 1
I saw Eason Chan concert on last Saturday. It's great, although it's not like his last concert, had a theme or something. Some of the songs, with the clothes and setting, just so much fun...
People like him are so lucky, have talents and be able to do things they enjoy. Well, maybe they've been through a lot, but they're many people in the world spending their whole lives, still don't know what they want; or no matter how hard they try, still can't have what they deserve.
People like him are so lucky, have talents and be able to do things they enjoy. Well, maybe they've been through a lot, but they're many people in the world spending their whole lives, still don't know what they want; or no matter how hard they try, still can't have what they deserve.
Monday, 22 October 2007
最害怕的, The thing you most afraid of...
昨天和朋友們一起去了海洋公園的全城哈囉喂 . 上一次去應該是3 , 4年前 , 剛畢業第一份工的時候 , 和其他同事一起開心的玩了一整天 (因為是公司舉辦的員工活動 , 而且是免費! ) 這次去是和朋友一起去的 , 當然是自費 , 還是 $400 的特快證 .
其實我不太怕 Halloween 那些扮出來的鬼 , 鬼片或鬼故倒是很怕看 , 從前一個人住的時候根本不敢看 , 因為怕一個人回到家的時候... 去海洋公園的原因主要是想和朋友們輕鬆地玩一晚 . 說實在 , 和那班朋友見面多是在飲局 , 大概有 ... 99% , 所以說想在別的場合一起玩 .
去到以後才覺得香港人真喜歡熱鬧 , 因為那裡人真的很多很多 , 去到入口只見到一望無際的人頭 :
不過我一向對節日沒甚麼感覺 , 也不太喜歡人多或是熱鬧 . 不過就是愛玩 , 年紀愈大愈愛玩 , 好像要補回以前沒玩的份 . 海洋公園的鬼屋 , 扮鬼的 staff 都 OK , 不過不太驚嚇就是了 .
反而真正把我們嚇到的是小昆蟲 . 我最怕的是moth , 是真的很怕很怕 , 而我的朋友最怕的是曱甴 . 我和我的朋友也笑說沒想到花 $400 進去 , 入鬼屋沒怎麼被嚇到 ; 只是坐在一旁休息 , 卻被遠處一隻飛行中的小昆蟲嚇到... 唉...
人到底為什麼會害怕 ? 為什麼有些人會對無形的東西感到害怕 ? 又為什麼有些人會怕一些沒有害的東西呢 ? 如果你問我為甚麼會怕 moth , 我也不知道 , 只是我從很小的時候已經很怕 , 就是現在我連照片也不敢看 . 有些人叫我去克服它 , 可是有那麼容易克服的就不是怕啦 ! 而且我其他的都不怎麼怕 , 只怕它 , 所以就隨我吧 !
其實我不太怕 Halloween 那些扮出來的鬼 , 鬼片或鬼故倒是很怕看 , 從前一個人住的時候根本不敢看 , 因為怕一個人回到家的時候... 去海洋公園的原因主要是想和朋友們輕鬆地玩一晚 . 說實在 , 和那班朋友見面多是在飲局 , 大概有 ... 99% , 所以說想在別的場合一起玩 .
去到以後才覺得香港人真喜歡熱鬧 , 因為那裡人真的很多很多 , 去到入口只見到一望無際的人頭 :
不過我一向對節日沒甚麼感覺 , 也不太喜歡人多或是熱鬧 . 不過就是愛玩 , 年紀愈大愈愛玩 , 好像要補回以前沒玩的份 . 海洋公園的鬼屋 , 扮鬼的 staff 都 OK , 不過不太驚嚇就是了 .
反而真正把我們嚇到的是小昆蟲 . 我最怕的是moth , 是真的很怕很怕 , 而我的朋友最怕的是曱甴 . 我和我的朋友也笑說沒想到花 $400 進去 , 入鬼屋沒怎麼被嚇到 ; 只是坐在一旁休息 , 卻被遠處一隻飛行中的小昆蟲嚇到... 唉...
人到底為什麼會害怕 ? 為什麼有些人會對無形的東西感到害怕 ? 又為什麼有些人會怕一些沒有害的東西呢 ? 如果你問我為甚麼會怕 moth , 我也不知道 , 只是我從很小的時候已經很怕 , 就是現在我連照片也不敢看 . 有些人叫我去克服它 , 可是有那麼容易克服的就不是怕啦 ! 而且我其他的都不怎麼怕 , 只怕它 , 所以就隨我吧 !
Friday, 19 October 2007
飲局
昨晚有飲局 , 是去我最怕的 Chichi Club , 因為雖然去的次數不多 , 但是每次去每次冧 , 其他一起去的也幾乎無一倖免 , 所以我們得到的結論是那裡的酒 ... 有毒 ! 本來我們已決定不會再去那兒 , 可是沒有其他地方有位 , 最後只有去 Chichi . 幸好那天大家都沒有出事 . Yeah!
離開的時候有微微 wing , 自己一個人等巴士時開始瘋狂地拍了很多無聊的相片 ...
離開的時候有微微 wing , 自己一個人等巴士時開始瘋狂地拍了很多無聊的相片 ...
Thursday, 18 October 2007
戒 , 色 / Lust Caution
終於看了色戒 . 原本計劃是初上畫時和朋友去看的 , 但約不到 , 又懶得一個人自己去看 (因為背景題材也不算十分吸引我). 最後有朋友約 , 便一起看 .
看過後 , 會覺得是一部好看的電影 , 不悶 , 但不能說很好 . 朋友問我為什麼 , 我也說不上來 , 只能說 maybe 二次大戰 , 愛國兒女等也太遙遠 , 所以沒感覺 . 今天早上看報紙時 , 讀到一篇關於色戒的文章 , 我才明白原因...
因為太明白 , 電影的故事太明白 , 連結局也太明白 . 對我來說 , 我覺得好看的電影都是會有 '想' 的空間 . 但看完色戒後 , 也只能說這是一部好看的電影 , 沒有其他 . 所以我 prefer 斷背山
When I watch some movies, which're really good, they will make me feel 鬱悶, sometimes it'll last for a few days. When time like this, I watch some funny, and silly movie to light things up.
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